I’ve been with my partner for a few months now, but lolita had never really come up until recently.
I wanted to go to a meetup, so a week or so ahead of time I told him I’d be going to visit some friends that day. He asked if he could come because he wanted to meet my friends. Of course, I said yes. I didn’t explain to him that I was going to a meetup, I didn’t even mention lolita fashion. I told him nothing.
On the day of the meetup I was getting ready in the bedroom, and all of a sudden my partner walks into the room whilst I’m putting on my petticoats. He just sort of starred at me like I was crazy. I had him sit down on the bed, and while I finished getting dressed I explained lolita fashion to him, and what we’d be doing that day. He was totally cool with it. When I was ready to go he told me I looked ‘absolutely stunning.’
We spent the whole day at the meetup, and towards the end I asked him if he was bothered I dragged him along. He told me that he was having a blast, and that he had no reason to complain because he ‘got to hang out with a bunch of really cool girls who’re wearing beautiful dresses.’